Be the bigger person

Trying so hard to be the bigger person, it is utterly exhausting. Reality is, it would be so much easier to let anger consume you.

The ex put stipulations on people meeting the girls. It was simply nobody can meet them until we are sure we are going to build a long term relationship with that person and also until we have met the new person.

So I find out that a girl that he has known for TWO months has met my kids three times (at first he said two and it keeps changing)... how did I find out? Well for one he lies so much that he can't keep up with his own fables. And two, my daughter told me "daddy told me not to tell"...

It's so hard to be the bigger person. I had to explain to my daughter that she can always tell me anything. I had to choose not to blow up in his face and simply go for a drive to cool down.

This divorce cannot be finalized soon enough. These stipulations will then be legalized.

But it's sad, I want to say "I can't believe he would do that" when reality it is "look, he's back to the same old BS"

Just needed a vent. I can't believe he did that to my daughter and dragged her into any of this.