@mccoy3038,
First and foremost: I'm going to assume that you are a fully functioning human being. After all, you are married and have a child.
Quote:She did not invite me, her husband, or bring any food home for me.
Are you incapable of purchasing prepared or unprepared food yourself? Unless you sent this through a time machine, do I need to remind you that this is the 21st century? Or are you bedridden and incapable of obtaining edible sustenance yourself?
Quote: She believed that I would not be home when she arrived, I was. Should she have called?
She could have called. Did you consider that she needed to have this private time with your daughter (for whatever reason)?