That's what concerns me, we don't fight a lot. She's had a break from school and she's going back this week. I don't see her much since she's only back for holidays and some weekends. Even before this, we had our stupid little fights like every other...but I never thought she was violent or anything. which is why I'm so upset about this. It's not like her! I'm beyond mad, and I'm very embarrassed and hate her atm, but I can't shake the feeling that it was so much overreaction and something must have ticked her off more than me wanting to leave with him.
I'm not taking anything, this is not something that happens too often. I'm not justifying her actions, but I'm really fine. Maybe you think I'm in denial and don't want to accept this, but I'm not. I just don't think it's as serious as you're saying it is.
I decided to tell my parents tonight after school. I'm going to tell them why I was late and I'm gonna tell them she humiliated me in front of everyone. I don't care how lame and childish that makes me, I just think there might be something going on in her life that is making her tense. This was not like her- doing this in public and treating me like her property- she's normally really cool and cares what people think.
I have to say the physical fights were from when I was very small like at most 10 or 11. Oh and trust me, when we fight now it's always verbal and with the use of the beautiful, powerful curse words.
I worry about her. she is acting weird, and not just in this case. I think what you're saying makes sense about her marrying and being an abusive wife, but she's not a violent person. I don't know what came over her, and well...this whole discussion with you just makes me feel bad for her in a way and makes me think like it was maybe my fault.