@mruniversal,
Dear mruniversal,
You do sound a bit confused about her and where you stand with her. It is a turnoff however it can be fixed. First, what kind of "weird" things did you say? and truthfully if you were not sure what she thought of you, your best bet would be to be direct about it. There are different ways that you can be direct with her. Choose the one you feel the most comfortable one with.
A. If you share the same group of friends with her ask her to come to one of the get togethers. If there are none talk to one of your close buddies so that a few of you can get together where ever and then invite her that way it minimizes the ackwardness.
B. You can invite her out to a public place. Coffee? A Bar? Movies? Dinner? The Beach? Fishing? Which ever you feel most comfortable with.
C. You can ask her if she wants to talk on the phone. If she agrees than see where the conversation goes. Pay close attention to her words. Females often give off subtle cues about their interest in you...it'll be subtle but you can find it in her words and tone of voice
D. Tell her your interested.
E. Ask her what she thinks of you? and see what she replies. Once she replies, if you're insure of what it means find a female friend that you trust and ask her. She will be able to tell you if it means a yay or nay .
also...you need to spend more time around her, talking to her, and getting to know her to determine where you stand. You won't really know unless you are spending time with her & getting to know her.
and what exactly has changed for you?
You'll never know unless you try!! What's the worse that can happen? She won't reciprocate the feelings and yes you might be bummed but life goes on and another female will come along....Let your memories be bigger than your fear!!!
Good luck