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mercy13
 
Reply Thu 26 Dec, 2013 10:48 pm
Have dated a widower a little the past few months. Well, maybe more than a little. He's not emotionally available although one would never know by talking to him. His actions in between let me know that . It's almost a year that he lost his wife. I have developed deep feelings for him but from all the things I have read it appears as if I could be wasting my time. He did seem like he cared for me alot. From all the posts am I to believe there is no hope for us?
 
CalamityJane
 
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Reply Thu 26 Dec, 2013 10:53 pm
@mercy13,
Of course there is hope - she's dead, you're alive - just don't compete with her!
Your friend probably had a long and good marriage, you're in the picture for a few months, what do you expect, miracles? If you're not patient and if you're not willing to acknowledge his past life, then leave him alone.
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Sat 28 Dec, 2013 12:15 pm
Did you read this thread?

http://able2know.org/topic/187652-1

Lots of good stories and sharing of ideas.
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