@Olivier5,
Quote:Yes, that's one of the most offensive things he said. It's a shocking idea, going against our most core instinct: fight or flee, an alternative to which Jesus adds a radically new third option.
Yes, he was clearly outlining a radically different approach to life, society, self.
Quote:(Although some say Hillel had the idea first and Jesus adopted and developed it... BTW I personally see Jesus as a man, as a moralist, a sage or a philosopher, not as a god; i call myself an atheit christian)
It does not matter which of those things he was/is. We can evaluate what he says in order to see if he is delivering a consistent and coherent message. He makes a claim that there is an ultimate 'good' in his way of looking at things. If that is true, then there should be a way to look at his metaphor of 'turning the other cheek' as a good thing and
not offensive.
That is the challenge he laid down. Not to accept everything as dogma, but to see the logic and reason in the totality the things he said, no matter if it violates our basic instincts at times. Obviously he is implying that basic instinct is not the foundation on which to build one's POV, if one is to be his follower.
This challenge would apply to the atheist Christian as well as the theist Christian. That's why I said your interpretation of his metaphor was inconsistent in calling it 'offensive'. If you are a follower (atheist or not), it is in your own interest to look deeply enough into his meaning to see why it is not offensive.