I need help to get a gf

Could you describe your appearance, age and significant events with females?

I don't suppose one of your 'love poems' is that signature line you're using....
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Well im 14 years old and i think i am over or under 6 feet tall brown eyes blackish brownish hair and i dunno what else to describe about myself...

Have you ever had a gf?

no... but i wrote a love powem lastyear to a hot bomb ass girl

What was her response?

I dont know but i have her phone nuber but i dont have a phone and no money to call her place but i think i forgot her phone number

That could be an impediment, crazybiker.

Perhaps you could get her screen name and chat. You do it so well.

ok ill try to do that...

Wellim going to log off then ill be on tomorrow... so cya later....

Watching with interest....keep posting crazybiker.

ok...

Gf's
Hi. Can i please be informed about your relationship with this girl? Will you post more?

Yeah, tell us how things are going.

Ah-ha! I know what your problem is from your quote, "no... but i wrote a love powem lastyear to a hot bomb ass girl" You have no respect for girls, and the girls see through you like a negative.

Yep, exactly what i was thinkin!!!1

I think you might be going about this the wrong way. You are entirely skipping the part about building a friendship, which is the foundation in any relationship. People aren't like your latest CD player. You can't hit the fast forward button and expect instant relationship. It takes time to build a foundation, which means spending the time developing a relationship by first offering friendship only.

No wonder you can't find a girlfriend! Women don't take too well to a sudden love poem because you like the way they look. You didn't bother to take the time to get to know them at all. I'm not surprised you are getting the blow off.

Slow it down! Spend time getting to know a woman. After you are already in a relationship poems are ok. You are asking for too much too soon.

Wildflower, Good advise. He's thinking about sex first, and everything else afterwards. He should find a red light district for what he's after.

He is 14, c.i.

I really think we should have a minimum age requirement on the Relationships forum.

Hit the Red Light District? Sounds like a plan to me. How about getting a new PS2 game if you want a new toy to play with? lol!! Boys and their toys. I really don't think any of them ever grow out of this!

Ok, lets get to the bottom of this one!! What is it you really want? Do you want someone to have sex with or otherwise known as a **** buddy? Do you want a partner to share life with that will give you love and affection mutually? Girlfriend is a little to broad of a term for us.

Do I see where you are coming from with an age limit on the Relationship Forum!! I have teen kids and friends of teens. I feel like I have earned my PhD in adolescent psychology, especially with the guys. I really have spent that much time with teens helping them with problems. They have such a lovely way of phrasing, don't they?

Adults, try to have some patience with the young. They require it. The second you sound critical of them because of their lousy way of expressing themselves, they clam up and you never know what it really is that is troubling them. Young men are terrible abou this one. I really can't say that the young aren't just as confused with relationships as adults.

I have gone through this one with my son and his zillions of friends ever since they hit puberty. Every guy wants a girlfriend. Every girl wants a boyfriend. They don't know, as adults do, how to go about this one.

Adults can't get relationships right or most of us wouldn't be divorced! We just have some experience they don't. I'm willing to have a little patience and help the young. I'm not willing to give sexual 'how to' lessons. That goes in the Porno Forum, which I didn't see listed.

Go ahead Crazybiker! Don't be shy. I think that you want a relationship or you wouldn't be writing poetry. I think you want someone to care about you that you can understand and feel mutual caring for. I also think you want sex. What young guy doesn't?!

We can help you out with this problem. There were a few comments made about respecting women, which I agree with. My 13 year old daughter cracks up laughing at guys that like her telling her how hot they think she is. You may not see it that way, but even young women do find this disrespectful, so cut this crap now.

I also can't help but to notice the Playboy Bunny avatar. I know, it looks cool, but understand what signals you are unintentionally sending to others. It is enough to make people think you only want to get laid, but I don't honestly think this is really what you want at all.

You are giving adult women the wrong signals. I believe you really want constructive advice. Members here can give you that, but you have to give us your honest thoughts so we don't have to make guesses.

Crazybiker, let us help you!! You really are doing all the wrong things. Keep posting and let us know what it is you want. We can collectively help you get there.