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Does he still like me?

 
 
me92029
 
Reply Fri 15 Nov, 2013 11:25 pm
so i went out with this guy that i really liked and he broke up with me because he liked another girl, but then he never asked her out. Now he is a total jerk to me and asked if we could still be friend i said sure and then he stopped talking to me. after a while he started talking to me like nothing happened. He now always askes if i hate him and i said no and now he treats me like im his ho.... i have been trying not to say bad words and he keeps trying to make me say bad words. Like yesterday he made me say the f word and i got mad and he said " making u cus makes my day" and his friend told me " it turns him on when i say bad words"........ does he like me or is he trying to get rid of me ????
 
tsarstepan
 
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Reply Sat 16 Nov, 2013 01:49 am
@me92029,
He sounds like a massive sociopathic jerk. It sounds like your feelings are not in his top 5 priorities in this relationship.

Why would he try to get rid of you when you are the one who seemingly is so willing to let him walk all over you and in 12 inch spiked boots as well.
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trying2learn
 
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Reply Sat 16 Nov, 2013 02:16 am
@me92029,
me92029 wrote:
........ does he like me or is he trying to get rid of me ????
Does it matter? You wrote he was a jerk to you..stopped talking to you, treats you like a ho etc. Walk away, he isn't worth your time.
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Roberta
 
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Reply Sat 16 Nov, 2013 04:07 am
@me92029,
Who cares if the still likes you? The question you need to ask yourself is why you still like him. Do you like being treated badly?

He sounds horrible. And you seem to welcome it.

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cherrie
 
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Reply Sat 16 Nov, 2013 04:45 am
@me92029,
He's on a bit of a power trip with you.
He doesn't like you, but he's not trying to get rid of you either. At the moment he is using you to amuse himself, like trying to make you swear, and treating you badly, throwing you out and reeling you back in.
You need to get away from him, and find someone who will treat you with a lot more respect than this wanker ever will.
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jespah
 
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Reply Sat 16 Nov, 2013 05:45 am
@me92029,
He likes treating you like a doormat. You, apparently, have no problems with this.

This guy is not going to be your white knight. He's going to continue to **** all over you. And unless you do something about it, you'll continue to let him.

Question: I bet you find him super good-looking. Now substitute his face for the guy in school who you think is the ugliest boy you've ever seen. Got that? Now, would you take this kind of crap from Mr. Ugly Pants?

I bet I know the answer to that one.
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glitterbag
 
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Reply Sat 16 Nov, 2013 06:06 am
@me92029,
What I want to know is WHY do you "let" him make you do anything??????? Then ask yourself this "what would my grandfather think of the way I let him treat me?" Would he be proud of this young man, because if hewould approve, then Granddad's a big fat jerk too and you need better male role models.
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me92029
 
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Reply Sun 17 Nov, 2013 11:57 pm
Thanks to all who replied
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musiccabin
 
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Reply Mon 18 Nov, 2013 01:39 am
@me92029,
oh my god! he sounds so much like that person that i was involved with!! i'm also trying to figure my situation out.
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CoastalRat
 
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Reply Mon 18 Nov, 2013 08:14 am
@me92029,
He cannot "make" you say the f word. Nor can he make you his "ho." He can make you do nothing that YOU do not give him the power to do. Just stop all contact. He is a manipulative punk.
glitterbag
 
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Reply Wed 27 Nov, 2013 08:33 pm
@CoastalRat,
Ditto what CostalRat said.
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