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why do I have nightmares?

 
 
kasnas
 
Reply Tue 29 Oct, 2013 04:23 am

Sometimes I think I'm over him but then during the night I get scary dreams about him. When I wake up, I feel flustered and annoyed. I wish I could stop thinking about him all together. It is not that I mind him moving on with life, on the contrary, I've chatted with this person for almost two years, and the last ear of chatting we had nothing but fights. At the end of it, I felt drained and judged. He would say the most horrible things to me, such as me being evil and clingy. I feel guilty, and even after four months of having no contact whatsoever I can't stop wondering, maybe I do suck, and I a bad person. I can't stop thinking what he said is the truth. Because I made obvious mistakes that were my fault. I hated but loved him. I could never trust him, I felt he was lying all the time, because he contradicted himself so much, after awhile I began to do the same thing.
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Tue 29 Oct, 2013 07:30 am
Forgive him for being a jerk - then forgive yourself for putting up with it.

And visa versa.

When you rest your mind about this, then your nightmares will leave.

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Setanta
 
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Reply Tue 29 Oct, 2013 07:58 am
why do I have nightmares?

Because you can't spell Kansas.
OmSigDAVID
 
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Reply Tue 29 Oct, 2013 08:20 am
@Setanta,
Setanta wrote:
why do I have nightmares?

Because you can't spell Kansas.
Go FONETIC in your spelling!





David
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Setanta
 
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Reply Tue 29 Oct, 2013 12:50 pm
Jeeze, what a clown . . . wanna tell how you would shorten the word Kansas? Wanna explain how you would spell it "more fonetically?" You need to learn to think before you post.
OmSigDAVID
 
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Reply Tue 29 Oct, 2013 01:14 pm
@Setanta,
Setanta wrote:
Jeeze, what a clown . . . wanna tell how you would shorten the word Kansas?
Wanna explain how you would spell it "more fonetically?" You need to learn to think before you post.
I was speaking generally n universally
in exhorting fonetic spelling. Big surprize, huh ??

It does not take much to get u mad, Setanta.
U r almost a joke against yourself. Its not hard to pull your strings,
if anyone wanted to DO that. (Still, I will admit that A2K is better off
with u in it than out of it; u r a colorful character -- like a clown.)





David
dalehileman
 
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Reply Tue 29 Oct, 2013 01:16 pm
@kasnas,
Then Kas there's the matter of diet. Maybe you shouldn't eat just before bedtime
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Setanta
 
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Reply Tue 29 Oct, 2013 01:21 pm
@OmSigDAVID,
You're delusional. I didn't get "mad" (nor angry). I just think it's an important public service to point out the idiocies you commonly post.
dalehileman
 
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Reply Tue 29 Oct, 2013 01:28 pm
@Setanta,
Grrr, growl, dammit
I tell you I'm not angry, NO, I'm NOT and anybody who says I am is fullovit

S. forgive me, it's a compulsion
OmSigDAVID
 
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Reply Tue 29 Oct, 2013 01:46 pm

To be a little more specific:
the poster 's topic title inquired: "why do I have nightmares?"
In a gentle effort toward mild humor, I suggested the remedy
of going fonetic.





David
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Setanta
 
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Reply Tue 29 Oct, 2013 01:51 pm
You two are quite the couple . . . you should get a room.
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OmSigDAVID
 
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Reply Tue 29 Oct, 2013 01:58 pm
@Setanta,
Setanta wrote:
You're delusional.
Thank u for your analysis.



Setanta wrote:
I didn't get "mad" (nor angry).
I just think it's an important public service to point out the idiocies you commonly post.
Your comments r always welcome.
I am fully confident that u have admirably good reason
to support your conclusion that Ms. Kasnas is concerned with Kansas
and that she yearns to spell it.





David
Setanta
 
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Reply Tue 29 Oct, 2013 02:13 pm
@OmSigDAVID,
If you had a sense of humor, you'd have understood. It has long been obvious, however, that you possess no sense of humor. By the way, as for your claim that you were deploying humor, i think you're a liar. Why did you quote my post before your remark? You just aren't very good at this sort of thing, despite all your grandiose claims for your intelligence.
OmSigDAVID
 
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Reply Tue 29 Oct, 2013 03:25 pm
@Setanta,
Setanta wrote:
If you had a sense of humor, you'd have understood.
It has long been obvious, however, that you possess no sense of humor.
To whom??


Setanta wrote:
By the way, as for your claim that you were deploying humor, i think you're a liar.
I believe that u DO
and a lot worse that that, I 'm certain.
I'd need to re-evaluate my introspection, if u began to LIKE me.




Setanta wrote:
Why did you quote my post before your remark?
You just aren't very good at this sort of thing,
It was momentary forgetfulness of my original intention.
After I 'd posted, I saw the whole thread and it reminded me.
I polished my response to u accordingly. I have no reason to deceive u.
I am not applying to u for a loan nor a job.





Setanta wrote:
despite all your grandiose claims for your intelligence.
MULTIPLE be the chuckles!
Your jealousy moves u to project your delusions onto me, in your envy.
I have not (and wud never) make any claims qua my own intelligence; (bad taste).
Those notions spring from your imagination, Mr. Setanta.
IF u claim that I actually DID assert such boasts,
then I CHALLENGE u to quote them.

U will not accept my challenge because u r un-able
to support your false allegations against me.
Your calumniations result from your ideological passion to malign & asperse
anyone who supports personal liberty and Individual freedom.

Its not in my nature to demean myself as a braggart.





David
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roger
 
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Reply Tue 29 Oct, 2013 03:36 pm
@kasnas,
Any new prescriptions, kasnas? Some meds, especially the psychoactive can cause some incredibly "vivid dreams", which most of us lay people call nightmares.
roger
 
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Reply Tue 29 Oct, 2013 03:36 pm
@roger,
Sorry for getting back on topic, guys.
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ossobuco
 
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Reply Tue 29 Oct, 2013 03:53 pm
@roger,
Alex Karras was a major guy.

I don't think I've ever had what is called a nightmare (knock on wood).
I am usually busy trying to get somewhere or solve some unsolvable issue since it keeps changing on me, and then wake up. The participants have changed over the years - they are usually not in the dreams if not earlier in my life than ten years before. Indeed I've now had my ex and some a2kers in entirely stupid dramas recently. None of you look like yourselves.

I do have what I think, perhaps incorrectly, are phantasms - or brain spikes. Sometimes I am woken up by a spider on my pillow, and when I'm conscious, having thrown the pillow, there is no spider anywhere around. After years of this every so often, I know it isn't real. It is just before awakening. I had spider or 'spider' bites that swelled up as a child, and actual black widows around three houses, including this one, so I'm not sans data on this fear mobile.

My real fear is that when I get entirely crazy, it will be a spider movie.
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ossobuco
 
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Reply Tue 29 Oct, 2013 03:56 pm
Ok, ok, back to topic in a bit.
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OmSigDAVID
 
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Reply Wed 30 Oct, 2013 11:33 pm
@dalehileman,
dalehileman wrote:
Grrr, growl, dammit
I tell you I'm not angry, NO, I'm NOT and anybody who says I am is fullovit

S. forgive me, it's a compulsion
I remember a cartoon from the 1950s.
It showed a psychiatrist supine on the floor of his office,
straddled by his patient who was beating the doctor's head against the floor
(like Trayvon), over a caption of the psychiatrist saying:
" I take it back! You are NOT too hostile."
dalehileman
 
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Reply Thu 31 Oct, 2013 12:02 pm
@OmSigDAVID,
Thank you Dave. Perhaps S. is listening whereupon a new dawn arises
 

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