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My boyfriend says porn not his

 
 
rrl
 
Reply Mon 26 Aug, 2013 09:56 pm
I found a teen porn DVD in my boyfriends. home. He says it is not his. Also, I found twice within 6 months photos HE printed out of his 20 year old step niece that are promiscuous photos? He says he printed them to trash her. Do I believe him? I just don't , but then he gets upset with ME? I think its perverted. Advice please
 
roger
 
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Reply Mon 26 Aug, 2013 10:03 pm
@rrl,
If you don't believe him, you have to drop him. What else could you do?
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Mon 26 Aug, 2013 10:08 pm
@rrl,
if you need to be with soneone who has no kinks you have to leave. hopefully you are not bored to tears by your future straight arrow.
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rrl
 
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Reply Mon 26 Aug, 2013 10:31 pm
@roger,
I suppose you are right. It is hard to walk forever away from someone you love, but he continually hurts me. Thank you.
rrl
 
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Reply Mon 26 Aug, 2013 10:34 pm
@rrl,
While I get that no-one is perfect....isn't. having nude photos of your young step niece a bit twisted?
Pearlylustre
 
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Reply Mon 26 Aug, 2013 10:34 pm
@rrl,
If he continually hurts you then walk away regardless of the porn.
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jespah
 
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Reply Tue 27 Aug, 2013 06:25 am
@rrl,
Isn't the fact that the best lie he could come up with was that he was doing it to trash her a problem as well? Even taking his lie at face value and putting the most positive possible spin on it, he still comes across as a nasty, vindictive creep.

And you're with him why, again?
DrewDad
 
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Reply Tue 27 Aug, 2013 07:48 am
@jespah,
jespah wrote:

Isn't... that he was doing it to trash her a problem as well? Even... putting the most positive possible spin on it, he still comes across as a nasty, vindictive creep.

And you're with him why, again?

Came here to say this. Leaving satisfied.
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Tue 27 Aug, 2013 10:05 am
How is it that he is in possession on his niece's intimate photos?

Does he live there?

This man's ACTIONS are suspect. Then what he says is bizarre.

PS - turning around the blame and getting angry at a valid question is a sign of a manipulator.




hawkeye10
 
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Reply Tue 27 Aug, 2013 10:09 am
@PUNKEY,
PUNKEY wrote:

How is it that he is in possession on his niece's intimate photos?

Does he live there?

This man's ACTIONS are suspect. Then what he says is bizarre.





my bet is that she sexted it. she is 20 so she can do what she wants.
tsarstepan
 
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Reply Tue 27 Aug, 2013 10:17 am
@rrl,
Just curious. Who does he claim is the actual owner of the DVD anyway? Is he blaming a porn watching ghost or gremlin who lives in his basement? An exroommate? Planted by a rogue cop? Etc...?
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Tue 27 Aug, 2013 10:19 am
@hawkeye10,
on a related note: if my daughters did Playboy I would look, be proud, and keep a copy. unless this guy is having sex with the girl I dont see the problem.
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rrl
 
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Reply Wed 28 Aug, 2013 10:51 am
@tsarstepan,
Thank you everyone. I am no longer seeing this man. Your posts gave me validation and insight. I appreciate it.
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Wed 28 Aug, 2013 01:03 pm
@rrl,
I am so glad that we could help you justify what you wanted to do. come on back the next time you want to do something with your life but need a push, we are here for you.
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Tekla
 
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Reply Tue 28 Oct, 2014 10:25 pm
@rrl,
A usually porn is o.k., because all men do that.

But a teen porn is a no go !
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