A strange situation with a prostitute. Was I wrong?

Before paying the female, why didn't you write up a contract, have her read it and then sign it?

Do you really think "a shower" in an illegal house of prostitution will matter?

Have you ever had a case of VD?

Did you declare your "purity" and "sterility" to the prostitute? If not, why should she be subjected to your concerns of impurity? For all she knows you're as "dirty" as she is or could be.

Next time write a check and if you're not "satifised" with "services" you can cancel the check.

Why are you thinking about this for more than five seconds after it happened?

You paid a whore. You essentially called her one. By bitching about you calling her that, she ended up not giving you what you paid for. Since the brothel is illegal, you have no monetary recourse.

Yup, it's a ripoff.

What are ya gonna do about it? Sue her?

This woman was willing to give you oral sex but would not kiss you.

Why are you worried about a SHOWER?

Yes, you got ripped off. I don't know why it matters , but the prostitute acted unprofessionally and her not completing the service you paid for was unethical on her part.

I hope that makes you feel better.

A real bastard is a guy who treats a hooker like a hooker. What a jerk.

Who did you pay? if you paid the brothel/brothel-manager/pimp, you could have complained to the person you paid. Your own risk of course.

If you paid the woman (not girl hopefully) directly then ...your own risk.

Overly sensitive? that's probably a matter of your tone and her perspective.

Being a sex trade worker doesn't mean a person doesn't have feelings.

I think that is kind of a trick to cheat people to have their money

I would hope that illegal prostitutes would have more of a sense of ethics then that.

As someone who has been a call girl (many years ago), I must say that you are a jerk. First of all, would it have been accpetable if she were to badger you about whether or not you had showered? A lady is still a lady regardless of her profession.
You asked her to perform a service without a condom, yet you worry about cleanliness? Even if she had showered 5 times that day it would not change the fact that she may be carrying STD's. Of course in my expierence hookers or call girls have less incidence of STD's than do club and bar girls. Most brothels or escort services require their workers to always use protection and to have quarterly or even monthly checkups. Chances are good that she was cleaner than you.
Personally if I were in the act of oral copulation and you asked me for the second time if I had showered, I would have stopped, left, and found a bodyguard to let you know that you were no longer welcome at that establishment. And I would have kept your money as payment for your abuse.

I get the impression he's not an ocker; the Ozzies I have met have all been real gentlemen. Possibly, from the language errors, a "New Australian"?