@PUNKEY,
Quote: say GO (if you can afford it and have the time)
You don't want to go thru life thinking she was the "one that got away."
Nonsense this is not a 1950s romance comedy and he would be lucky for her not to call the cops if he travel out of the blue so far just to see her base on a few minutes talk.
In this modern era he might be able to find her by way of facebook and drop her a friendly line and hope that she will become interest in him over time.
Hell if she show any freindliness online he could even come up with a story that he is going to be in her part of the world for some other reason then to just see her and would she be kind enough to consider showing him around during his visit.
The idea is to avoid frightening the **** out of the woman and if it work out for him by the second child it should be safe to tell her the truth that it was love and lust at the first meeting.