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Tue 25 Jun, 2013 11:40 am
My husband and I haven't had sex in nearly 10 years (his choice not mine). Over the years our closeness has gone and we're rarely have any physical contact. Recently I've started to wonder about his relationship with a male friend. I suspect he could be gay as there have been other things other the year that give me a gut instinct he could be. My question is how can I find out? I thought to check his computer history for gay porn but he has his laptop password protected so I can't get in. I thought to check if he has any incriminating texts but his phone has a pass code on it too. If he is doing anything with this man then I am sure he would only be doing it behind closed doors at his friends house. I don't think he would risk being seen by anyone. Any clues how I can find out for sure? I don't want to confront him about it if i'm wrong as that's a terrible accusation.
@squeakster,
You can ask him why he thinks you and he have not been intimate for the past 10 years. If you say that gently and with concern, then he might feel free enough to open up to you.
Clearly something is wrong here and this (the state of your marriage) should have not been allowed to go on so long.
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