So, I say, maybe he is checking out your tattoos persona, why you have tattoos as he feels you are a shy person, and maybe thinks tattoos means you are tough.. And, your immediate response is, there are better bodies, looks I'm kidding myself, I'm silly, I have no friends there, I'm a fool, he's not looking at me.
Mam, he is. He has. He did. Looks mean jack ****, it's what's inside.
A lot of guys prefer a girl who is real, who just wants to get herself a little fitter not trying to be a queen ...
Don't put yourself down, or go from positive to negative. Only the positive survive.
This is so common with "people" who don't believe in themselves, who think they are nothing, they settle. They get hurt, they just jump for love, only to be used.
All "girls" have dreams of that perfect man. What are you going to do for yourself to believe that you deserve it? That guy that respects you, it doesn't end at the gym, or start at it, but it's a start that you feel that by going, you may start to learn to like yourself, more... and then perhaps love yourself enough to respect yourself to realise when some guy is there for you or to use you.
It's a start. So is listening to Chai and others who sound hard but tell it how it is.