@drewdd,
So in accordance with both threads, you are attractive and women fall all over you, show you their cleavage give you hair cuts.... And are suggestive but in a protective way of being a good girl.
You have not dated for a few years.
Go get some female friends, talk to them about female habits and get an indication of how women think.
Because even if they were or were not or wanted your wallet you need to understand how women think........Or else you will always be confused.