@Fil Albuquerque,
You claim nothing is changing, but you ignore what you yourself do from minute to minute, hour to hour, day to day, etc., etc., etc.
By definition, you are making subjective choices in how you wish to spend the time. It's not about after the fact; what you decide to do and act on it are your subjective choice.
No one needs to tell us that what already happened cannot be changed. That's a foolish assumption that belongs on the laugher curve.
BTW, have you found any straw man post from any of my over 80,000 posts on a2k?