@Frank Apisa,
Agreed.
But that is not what Fil has asserted.
If our experiencing IS a vital part in making it happen at all, then that is indeed what reality is.
Our knowing might be a vital part, and it might not be a vital part. If it IS a vital part, then it is not true that there is a state of affairs
no matter what we know.
If it IS NOT a vital part, it is true that there is a state of affairs
no matter what we know.
But we can not know either way.
If Fil had said simply "there is a state of affairs" we would have no quarrel. But adding that last part asserts something more. It asserts that we are irrelevant to there being a state of affairs. That is unknowable. I seem to recall you admitting this earlier on, when the wording Fil used was "no matter what we can tell about it", not "know".