@roger,
That's what I'm hoping, but he's at sea for 3 weeks (deckhand) and home for a week. I don't know his schedule. Then we're up against... filed in NH, sent to AL, and his work is out of Louisiana.
I understand the Child Support Services DHHS are inundated with cases that they can't get anywhere with, but they sure are rude as hell and act like they have done all they can do. I guess I'll have to bring up the idea of serving him before he leaves or as he gets off the boat.
I wonder if they would send the papers upon request to whoever it is that can legally serve them to him.. anyone know about this scenario?