That is a pretty classic abuser's behavior. I bet after she's cracked ya one, she's extremely apologetic and loving, perhaps buying presents and certainly being solicitous. That is another classic behavior.
Get out yesterday. And yes, BillRM
, I am well aware that most people have heard of shelters, etc. For the 1% of the population that hasn't, the information remains valuable. And for the larger % who take it and think it is somehow their due, that they have a big heart when the reality is that they are really just a sucker and a doormat, I do hope that some of what I am typing helps them to, as Ann Landers used to say, "Wake up and smell the coffee."
- these things do not end well. This is not a happy little fairy tale where, if you were only faster with dinner, or better in bed, or quieter, or smarter, or better with money, or younger, or thinner, or prettier, or more subservient, or whatever the **** she wants this time, that somehow this crap would stop. It won't, unless you remove yourself from the situation.
Today it's a painful jaw. Would you like for, tomorrow, for it to be a broken jaw? Would you like to eat the remainder of your meals, for the rest of your life, through a straw? Because that is the way this tale could very well end.
Do Google abuse and battered woman's syndrome
, as I suggested. I think you don't know what any of that is, and are in pretty dang deep denial.