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ex bf birthday

 
 
wjt47
 
Reply Tue 12 Mar, 2013 10:14 pm
my ex bf text me the day after my birthday at 6a.m. and said "all day i kept trying to figure out why feb 9th kept sticking out in my head but it never hit me till now happy late birthday! hope it was awesome. First off I know for a fact he didn't forget he always remembers dates. second he has a new gf. So why would he do this? Should I tell him happy birthday?
 
roger
 
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Reply Tue 12 Mar, 2013 10:19 pm
@wjt47,
Why would you tell him happy birthday if it was your birthday? Anyway, I don't get the situation. Just pretend he never called, and don't worry about it.
wjt47
 
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Reply Tue 12 Mar, 2013 10:24 pm
@roger,
his birthday is tomorrow wondering if i should tell him happy birthday?! and why did he tell me happy birthday and act like he forgot when i know he didn't1
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Tue 12 Mar, 2013 10:28 pm
Really, really you do KNOW that? You must be a mind reader.

He has another girlfriend. He is not thinking about you.

The date brought something back and he finally remembered. That's what he told you. Take his word for it. And forget it.

Send him a BD greeting only if you want to - as a friend.
wjt47
 
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Reply Tue 12 Mar, 2013 10:33 pm
@PUNKEY,
If you don't have feeling for a girl you don't remember or pretend not to remember her bf I know he remembers because he has a excellent memory he remembers computer codes for a living . He remembered that date we met our first date what i was wearing and everything when we were together. And if you do remember why bother telling her if you don't still have feeling for her that makes no sense specially risking the new gf will get mad about the situation ?
roger
 
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Reply Tue 12 Mar, 2013 10:44 pm
@wjt47,
Well, we don't know his game. So what? Forget about it.
thack45
 
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Reply Tue 12 Mar, 2013 10:47 pm
Happy birthday roger!


OP, if your ex knew the date, then he obviously has a least (and likely only) one feeling for you.
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wjt47
 
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Reply Tue 12 Mar, 2013 10:49 pm
@thack45,
sorry can you be a little more detailed thanks for the reply and incite.?What do you mean by (likely only0 one feeling for you. What feeling?
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roger
 
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Reply Tue 12 Mar, 2013 10:56 pm
@wjt47,
I don't know what your native language might be, but if you already know the answer you want, just pretend someone gave it to you.
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glitterbag
 
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Reply Wed 13 Mar, 2013 07:59 am
No, don't send ex bf a birthday greeting, text or card. You wanted an answer, there you go. No card, no contact, just put it out of your mind and stop looking for "hidden meanings".
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Mame
 
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Reply Wed 13 Mar, 2013 09:05 am
Agreed. Why are you asking? He has another g/f. He has remained friends with you, so he's wishing you a happy b'day. You could respond by texting: "Thanks, you too!"

What's the big deal? Why analyzing it so much? Even if he has feelings for you (romantic), he has another girlfriend now.
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CoastalRat
 
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Reply Wed 13 Mar, 2013 09:25 am
@wjt47,
From your post and responses to other posters, I get the sense that you still have feelings for him and you are trying to read into his text something that is not there.

As others have said, he remembered it was your birthday and decided to drop you a text wishing you a good one. That is all there is to it. You seem to be trying to inject meaning into this based on your insistence that he claimed he didn't remember it was your birthday. But he did remember. He knew the date had significance and he finally remembered what it was. So he dropped you a note. Wish him a happy birthday if you want to, but don't keep trying to read into his note something that is not there.
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Wed 13 Mar, 2013 11:10 am
@wjt47,
wjt47 wrote:
So why would he do this?


he made a mistake

forget about it
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Lola
 
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Reply Wed 13 Mar, 2013 11:25 am
@wjt47,
Just send him a happy birthday greeting and see what happens. You don't really know for sure. Only time and experience will tell. Then get on with your life.
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nqyringmind
 
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Reply Thu 14 Mar, 2013 01:00 pm
@wjt47,
Isn't it wonderful to have someone who crosses your path in life with whom you find some sense of compatibility and kinship?
Why inject negativity and drama?
Embrace the good. Be happy that there are people who think of you and wish you well, regardless of when and under what circumstances.
GROW UP! Enjoy your life!
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