Obedience consists of fear and pathetic disposition.
On the contrary, loving someone consists of understanding, caring and creating happiness and beautiful feelings of pleasure and excitement every moment.
I agree entirely.. My wife's father was extremely hard working man, his son and daughter were never allowed to have a opinion and were ordered about like soldiers, his wife worked all her adult life and was only given a small amount of pocket money... She never had a pick in anything, not even the cloths she wore, they had lived with us in a unit on our property's for the last 20 odd years 6 years ago he was put into a nursing home with Alzheimer's and my wife and I were at last thinking we could allow her to have and do as she pleased. But no, she went in every day and sat at his bedside and eventually ended up with Alzheimer's in there with him as well , He died 5 years ago and we visit her mum once a week, she now has no Idea who we are but just sits next to us and repeatedly asks where her husband is. She's 90 now, so it shows that if you are treated as a servant over a long enough period of time, you will no longer treated as human being... You become a THING in the husbands eye's. My wife and I have been together 45 years have 3 son's and 7 grandchildren, neither of us have dominated the other and the wife is Matriarch of the family and I'm highly respected, all as it should be ..we both feel we have earned it. Unfortunately I can't say the same for the rest of my family, seems it has a lot more to do with the genetics on how you end up treating others. ( :-- (.