virginity check without intercourse

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i need to ask about my gonna be wife. we have been in relation for 5 years.. and soon gonna marry. its a matter about her virginity. there have been some immense misunderstandings between us in last 2 years. due to which i have lost all my trust on her. i did clarify lots of things but one thing that strikes my mind is that if she had been having intimate relation with any guy, she tells she hasn't done so. and i have trusted her but im not satisfied internally, if i found out later on after wedding that she hasn't been virgin, i would probably live in guilt forever. and wont love her the same way. i need to know about means either than intercourse to find out if she is virgin. please help finding out ways either than sex and doctors visit. some manual way.

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@saifnshae,

Go out and buy a calendar.

And check what year it is.

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@saifnshae,

Why do you even care?

Cycloptichorn

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@saifnshae,

Tell your girlfriend that you are not yet ready for marriage and would like to postpone. Better yet, suggest she look for someone who believes her when she says she hasn't had sex with anyone else. Suggest she look for someone who, if not willing to believe her, is willing to take the word of her doctor and not insist on some physical way to exam her himself.

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@saifnshae,

you could poke her with a stick and see if she bleeds.

or you could dunk her in water and see if she floats.

if she sinks she was probably a virgin...

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@Cycloptichorn,

He seems to be a member of a culture that still have a hang up concerning women being virgins when coming to the marriage bed.

That is so foreign to the thinking of Western culture that any Western base website is going to not have many members that does not look onto him as a freak.

My suggest is that he posts his concerns and questions on a website that is hosted by people of his own culture or a similar culture.

Personally I feel bad for women that need to live in such societies but to be fair we are all prisoners of our own cultural standards and assumptions.

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@saifnshae,

You gotta be kidding here, right?

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@saifnshae,

saifnshae wrote:

i need to ask about my gonna be wife. we have been in relation for 5 years.. and soon gonna marry. its a matter about her virginity. there have been some immense misunderstandings between us in last 2 years. due to which i have lost all my trust on her. i did clarify lots of things but one thing that strikes my mind is that if she had been having intimate relation with any guy, she tells she hasn't done so. and i have trusted her but im not satisfied internally, if i found out later on after wedding that she hasn't been virgin, i would probably live in guilt forever. and wont love her the same way. i need to know about means either than intercourse to find out if she is virgin. please help finding out ways either than sex and doctors visit. some manual way.

Are you serious??? Hopefully she doesn't marry you.

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@saifnshae,

i have to abide by my culture and religion. and thank you for your suggestions.
Smile

i needed a solution like a member told, i-e; to see if she sinks or float . thats probably a manual way. without having sex. and finding out the truth

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@Rockhead,

thank you! this is the best possible suggestion till now in this topic.. Smile

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@saifnshae,

you're very welcome.

I also sell wolfbane...

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@Rockhead,

If she don't float Rockhead, you might share some responsibility.

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@saifnshae,

Really guys, this is low.

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@saifnshae,

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i have to abide by my culture and religion.

No you do not.............

You have free will and a mind that can handle logical and commonsense no matter what your culture or religion standards happen to be.

Oh and an obligation to treat your future partner and the future mother of your children with respect.

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@Rockhead,

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you could poke her with a stick and see if she bleeds.

or you could dunk her in water and see if she floats.

if she sinks she was probably a virgin...

But you don't understand those things Rocky. You scoff at them with no understanding of the circumstances in which they occurred or were said to have occurred.

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Many men wish to be the first. Perhaps they have a sensitivity others do not possess. Having experienced being first twice and of not being first a number of times I can say that I noticed a difference.

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@roger,

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If she don't float Rockhead, you might share some responsibility.

If she's a virgin, how could he share some responsibility?

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I gotta know, or else I will feel guilty....

Is the OP a virgin?

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@spendius,

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experienced being first twice and of not being first a number of times

So you have two boyfriends that you were their very first?

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@BillRM,

So you have a dirty mouth, piles, the clap and herpes.

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