Precisely. Advice. Not critique based on unknown facts
He is 28
he has this undermining, belittling, grandiose & superior way of thinking about himself
"Not contributing members of society" "worthless" "stupid" "crazy" & derogatory name calling.
He hangs up the phone on her,
refuses to answer calls,
screams & yells at her, then asks her for favors & money
Whatever he's spoiled & a complete baby when he doesn't get what he wants from her.
He takes & takes & treats her like she's the scum of the earth
My personal problem is my relationship with her & the way my boyfriend treats me. SCARY.
If I answer her calls because he has blown her off for half a week; "BEST FRIENDS YOU TWO ARE BFFS WHAT DID I TELL YOU DON'T TALK TO HER SHE'S INSANE!!" All day
If I open the door to her because she needs to drop something off he goes ballistic - tells me to hide in the room from her, even. Like wtf.
Then & ONLY then is it acceptable for me to talk to her.
I don't want to disrespect him but this is weird & freaks me out (the level of hatred he has is frightening at times).
he screams that I don't know his family, shut up, go away & runs to our bedroom slamming the door & giving me the silent treatment all day.
He acts batshit insane & it scares me because he's very sharp & reserved & calm & logical usually.
We just had a huge fight over it because he found out I spoke with his mother yesterday to assure her that her son is ok & idk why he won't answer her calls.
He's psychotic over it
Shut up ho!