@Frank Apisa,
Frank, If you have "experiences," you have reality. Most of those experiences were more or less chosen by you - like your participation on a2k.
Forget all those philosophers who can't explain the "simple facts of life."
We all have them - even those so-called expert philosophers who by their writings show they have experiences also, and have learned something - even mistakenly.
Once you are born and become "aware" of your environment, you experience reality - even if some are mis-perceived. That's the strange thing about human brains; they consist of electrical charges that may misfire. Sometimes, they can be "cured" by medication.