@firefly,
Quote:You've been around here about the same length of time I have, spendi. Do you remember how confused we all were when the new format was introduced? I think I became so frustrated, trying to find anything, I disappeared from the site for quite a while.
I can't say I was confused ff. I don't like change all that much although I had always preached to anybody who would listen that they should get used to change. I have had four distinctly different occupations leaving out a spell in the military, which took me to at least 10 middle-east countries. I got through the very sudden change from being coddled by a doting Mother to being shouted at by a Seargant Major for something I didn't know I had done, or could help doing, easily enough. I knew he was only kidding.
I made some representations to Robert but really I ought to have known better. I thought Ignore a diabolical change and the Thumbs only slightly less so. Now I find them amusing.
What did confuse me from the outset was a pronounced propensity to rely on unsupported assertions in argument (
argumentun proboscis) which I couldn't understand until I read Evelyn Waugh's and Aldous Huxley's remarks about American social life in the higher circles.
The change of format didn't augur any changes in that direction.
I'm no longer confused on the matter.
I soon got used to it. Once I found Trivia I was in my element. I really am quite trivial. I don't know the cause of that but it might have been that I noticed that people who took things seriously had funny ways. Not flat-out barmy but above the mid-point on the scale sort of thing.
I saw Trivia, from the first, as a method of encrypting some propaganda (sic) on behalf of the Widow Wadmans of this world to counteract the stick insect image which I found only slightly better than shagging a skeleton. Only my youthful vigour enabled me to cope with scrawny thighs which extend to the waist. What a terrible thing mini-skirts were to ladies like that.
There is a tendency when reading Mansfield Park to imagine all the young ladies having great legs but if you watch Royal Ascot on TV you will see a long parade of ladies legs which, assuming few changes in that regard since 1800, provides a more realistic approach. I chose my idea of Fanny Price's legs during today's programme.
From a friendliness point of view the format revision made no noticeable difference to me. But I still miss Clary. She hated the change as much as you did and when I made my submissions to Robert it was more on your behalfs than from my own. And, anyway, aggravating him is much more fun than telling him what a good bloke he is. Really good blokes hate being reminded that they are good blokes.
I don't think you are a nostalgic old fool at all and I think you know that. I absolutely deplored what DSK had done in the Sofitel but I thought you were making far too much of what, after all, was a very trivial incident, however vulgar. I knew exactly what Media was up to.
Did you see my post on the Brit thread today?
I thought I would do a longish post to recognise the longest day.