@Lola,
I got married with my own grandmother's heavy heavy heavy gold band, engraved anew. We weren't figures of wealth, and it was there to be worn.
As karma or caramels would have it, the ring made my hand turn red and itchy (a clue to the clueless - later when I had finally gotten my ears pierced, I got keloids as a result). So later we waltzed into whats the place, Cartier, and got me a simple white gold square band that didn't itch, and he decided he liked it so much that he had one made to match in silver. Not by Cartier, but by our neighborhood garage silversmith.