@engineer,
Had a fairly long discussion with a friend who is very involved in scouting about the Scouts' recent decision to accept gay scouts. His friend's family has been involved in scouting for decades and his son is an eagle scout. His concern was "How does this make my campsite more complicated? If something happens there will be a lawsuit and I'll be hung out to dry." Below was the train of our conversation. I present this to stimulate debate here that might reflect the debate going around the US right now.
Me: Why would you think something is going to happen? There is such thing as self control.
Him: It really doesn't matter if something happens or not. Even a false claim that "he touched me" would be disastrous.
Me: Why do you think you would be held responsible compared to the situation today where you have a gay scout and he is closeted?
Him: Because if I knew about his orientation, I can be blamed. I have the burden of knowledge.
Me: But sexual orientation does not imply tendency towards sexual violence.
Him: But it makes a boy-boy sexual situation more likely and I had prior knowledge.
Me: What about if one scout who beats another one? Are you liable there?
Him: If I see that situation developing, I separate the scouts to prevent violence. If I fail to do that I might be more liable, but a "boys will be boys" attitude usually prevails there as long as we don't allow it happen again.
Me: What about developementally disabled scouts that might be slightly more prone to physical outbursts? Would you refuse to let them be scouts?
Him: Never
Me: But although the lieklihood is small, isn't there a greater chance of physical violence and don't you have the burden of knowledge?
Him: Good question. I don't have an answer for that. As for gays, I'd be better off not knowing. They should use "don't ask, don't tell" and be willing to follow the scout creed.
Me: But all these kids go to school together and if someone is out in their non-scouting life, wouldn't you rather know than have everyone know but you?
Him: Good point, I'd rather know.
Me: What happens from here?
Him: Our local leadership doesn't convene for a few weeks. We've called a meeting with our sponsoring organization (a local church) to proactively discuss it with them. Depending on their decision, we may need to find a new sponsor.
Related link:
Churchs split on Scouts Welcoming Gay Youth