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Need help protecting unborn child

 
 
Reply Thu 17 Jan, 2013 03:29 am
Ok I am most likely the father to an unborn child and the mothers family has told me she is staying with her x again and he has thrown her against the wall and hit her stomach several times. He has always been violent towards her. She is hiding all this from me and it is a really weird situation but I am in fear of him hurting my unborn child. And apparantly I was told he thinks the baby is his. I know I can order a DNA test but my fear is him causing damage to baby especially when he finds out its mine cause most likely it is. He was just declared by court unfit to be around any child. What do I do. There is more to this story but my main question was stated.
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Reply Thu 17 Jan, 2013 07:43 am
Your post is full of "I was told" stories.

Unless you can talk to this woman directly and verify what is going on, you have no legal or paternal issues. You don't even know if she is carrying your child.

Why does this girl stay with him?
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Reply Thu 17 Jan, 2013 01:06 pm
@PUNKEY,
I know I was sleeping with her and she was seperated from him and with me for 6 months. CPS is involved bc of the child she already has with him. And they were already told about this new child being mine and want to find out.
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Reply Thu 17 Jan, 2013 02:29 pm
@dragonfly81,
Are you thinking you would want custody of this child - if it is yours?

CPS is involved with her other child so apparently, they can't take care of the one they have. This new one could add to the situation.

You need to consult with a lawyer if you are serious about this. You must tell the mother that you will be seeking custody. You will have to prove that you would be a capable parent.


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Reply Tue 22 Jan, 2013 05:07 pm
@PUNKEY,
There is to many what ifs in this situation but yes if she is with him or cps is going to threaten to take child then yes I want full custody...I'm gonna find out more information soon hopefully..I'm working on it
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