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Sat 12 Jan, 2013 04:28 pm
I seem to find, my girlfriend and my best friend talking a lot, she goes to him and talks about her problems, they'er too close for my liking....
How do I stop this?
@hellolove,
Why do you think you should stop her from talking to someone? If you don’t trust her don’t be with her but don’t think
you can stop her from talking.
@hellolove,
She clearly doesn't feel she can talk to you about her problems, so maybe you need to think about why this is, instead of trying to stop her talking to your friend.
They are probably saying "That Hellolove, what a controlling beyotch". and "Let's make out!" and "I want your baby!!!!!" etc. Incidentally, that screen name sucks bigtime.
@hellolove,
Have you asked her why she can't talk to you about her problems?
And your best friend is obviously a good listener.
@hellolove,
I think you should just tell her and/or him. That's the only way to do it and get your point across otherwise your'e just going to be in a constant battle with this.