@23Flotsofquestions,
The reason you are releasing fluid when YOU are doing it, is because YOU know how YOU like it, maybe your orgasm is not brought to surface by intercourse, have him give you oral and fingering at the same time, even let them use a toy on you if you are comfortable with that. Just dont let a man discourage you from doing this, just because he doesnt like it. If the release of fluids turns him off, then find another who does like it.
there is nothing hotter than a girl who squirts all over the place. just saying