What to do when she hasn't answered the first call?

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I met a gorgeous woman about three weeks ago. We go and come back from work on the same bus and that's how I know her. We started talking a week ago. We don't talk anything flirty but regular things. Actually I asked her about weekend and asked her for a drinks. She's got a son of 15 and naturally she mentioned that. But she asked for my number and and we exchanged digits after a week of talking. I said I'll call her and we'll fix a time. I called her on saturday afternoon but she didn't pickup. I didn't call or text her since then. I know I'll meet her monday morning and possibly evening as well while waiting for the bus. But I have a plan of not meeting or calling her for the next few days. Should I call or text her? Or take a break for few days?

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[+4] - sozobe - 11/27/2012Not necessarily at all, depending on location. Here in Columbus we have a lot of suit-and-tie types commuting to and from work downtown via bus.

@rezaone,

Wait until you see her at the bus stop. A whole bunch of things could have happened when you called her that doesn't necessarily include her completely ignoring her call.

Perhaps her cell phone service is crappy and she never got your call. Perhaps her phone battery was dead and her phone was subsequently off. Perhaps her phone was merely off because of personal reasons or preferences for the phone on the weekend. Etc....

Perhaps she just simply didn't recognize the phone number and didn't answer it. Did you leave a voice mail reminding her of who you were?

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Sorry to be so harsh, but if she's "gorgeous" and has a 15 year old son, she is not looking for someone who rides the bus with her.

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@PUNKEY,

Not necessarily at all, depending on location. Here in Columbus we have a lot of suit-and-tie types commuting to and from work downtown via bus.

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@sozobe,

It's the same in most major cities that I know.

Doctors/lawyers/accountants/everybody transits in Toronto. It makes the most sense. Most of the travel into the financial district is by bus/streetcar/subway/intercity train

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