@dlowan,
dlowan wrote:He specifically, as I recall, said it WASN'T about any particular member.
Yes, I did. I am only belatedly coming to this but it has been brought to my attention that MsOlga has been going around playing martyr about my dispute with her and making out like because I don't want to argue politics endlessly with her that I do not listen to the community about matters that affect the community.
Better late than never so to set the record straight:
1) I did
not blame the proposed site changes on MsOlga. They were all planned long before our argument and I even went so far as to explicitly state as much when I said "
just to be clear, the planned feature change has nothing at all to do with her and everything to do with the current ignore feature not working well for most". The reason I brought it up at all is because she claimed a right to respond to people who want to ignore you and I was merely explaining that that is actually a "right" we are taking off the table (because it's kinda, you know, obnoxious).
2) Just because I don't want to endlessly argue politics with MsOlga (even after having said all I really had to say on the subject it went on) does
not mean I do not listen to the community. Hawkeye and others who butts heads with me will often say such things but anyone who knows me knows that is just not true. Able2know means more to me than it does to anyone else and I'm not stupid enough to shoot myself in the foot that way (come on, give me credit for finding more clever ways in which to shoot my own foot). Even though I don't want to argue politics with MsOlga I still paid attention to what her community feedback is. And just because I don't do all the things some individual user demands doesn't mean I don't listen to the community.
It just means I don't
agree with one particular member. This insipid notion that each time I disagree with a member I "don't listen to the community" is sophomoric bullshit. It's just sour grapes MsOlga is trying to spread because she is pissed off at me (ironically the reason I didn't want to argue with her in the first place is because she so frequently got upset with those who stridently disagreed with her).
This is all ridiculous, overblown drama. There are plenty of people here who don't want to talk to me endlessly either, I don't pitch a fit and play martyr over it. I move on. I don't follow them around pestering them until they give an exasperated response. I move on. And I certainly wouldn't then take the exasperated response and play martyr over it and start spreading lies about how the site is run and what you have been blamed for to try to drum up sympathy and animosity. That's puerile schoolyard play.
All that happened is one person didn't want to talk to another person and tried their best to do it quietly for a few years and failed to succeed. It is not the end of the world. MsOlga is a perfectly nice person whom I simply do not like arguing politics with. With any luck we'll all survive.