Am I Incestous, Please Help!?

@jespah,

i dont spend much time with her anyway, its an unsual fantasy

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@GuiltyBoy,

Then don't sweat it. You know you want to change. So do your best to change.

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@jespah,

ive tried my best, i cant see myself forgetting it to be honest

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@GuiltyBoy,

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i cant see myself forgetting it

Don't listen to Jes. Just acknowledge your reveries but knowing they're perfectly normal you can for the most part ignore them

You will see, as you age, just hang in there (no pun intended)

But please tell us something about yourself beyond what we already know

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@dalehileman,

my cousin is 18 too...

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@GuiltyBoy,

If I had had a pretty 18-year-old cousin I too would have harbored incestuous thoughts. The trick is not to reveal such ruminations

Unless she should come onto you, in which case with my explicit permission do participate with the utmost gusto

Just be sure the folks aren't let in onto it

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@dalehileman,

i dont want to do anything with her in real life, that is totally wrong and not what i want

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@GuiltyBoy,

In attempt to understand what makes you feel guilty about what most of us consider perfectly normal feelings, as I had queried please tell us something about yourself beyond what we already know; that you're a boy of 18

..such as nationality, education, family, acquaintances etc

Clearly you've been left out of things in some critical respect and while we'd like to help you, we'd have to know more about your upbringing and circumstance

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@dalehileman,

How are they normal feelings?! Fantasising over a cousin is not "normal" at all, and i have a perfectly normal upbringing, I live in London, I'm English, a normal Londoner, it has no relevance to this story though, and I totally disagree that these are "perfectly normal feelings"

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@GuiltyBoy,

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I totally disagree that these are "perfectly normal feelings"

Yes Boy I realize that and forgive, but that's exactly what makes you abnormal

How do your close friends respond when you so assert

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@dalehileman,

nobody knows about this apart from myself and my cousin

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@GuiltyBoy,

In other respects do you discuss with them your guilt and how do they respond

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@dalehileman,

I've never done something that has made me feel this guilty, I just can't seem to get over it, my cousin said that she doesn't care about it but its still bugging me

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@GuiltyBoy,

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nobody knows about this apart from myself and my cousin

That is well

However your methods may be too straightforward. For instance your approach might be made a bit more subtle or casual:

"You know, Ali, you're a very attractive specimen. If only you weren't my cousin….."

On one hand of course if she thinks you're kidding, you're off the hook. On the other, if you sense she's coming onto you, then go for it

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@dalehileman,

I DONT WANT TO DO ANYTHING WITH HER IN REAL LIFE, THAT IS JUST WRONG

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@GuiltyBoy,

Boy forgive me, but it's possible you were brought up in some sort of sectarian regime where you must feel guilty about nearly everything, eg, Catholic or Muslim

So I'm still hoping you might reveal a bit more about yourself

Meanwhile however you have our sympathy

Unless of course as many of us have come to suspect you've been kidding us all along

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@dalehileman,

why would i lie about something like this, this is a very serious issue for me

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@GuiltyBoy,

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a very serious issue for me

Okay Boy but then let us in on your upbringing and background so we may be of help

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@dalehileman,

you have no good advice for me, i still feel guilty, thanks

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@GuiltyBoy,

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i still feel guilty, thanks

Subconsciously it seems you wish to retain your guilt no matter what anyone offers in the way of help

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