Very strange sexual practice my boyfriend loves

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I had some questions about something that is bothering me some in the bedroom between me and my boyfriend. Its partially roleplay
and partially flat out strange! I am sure many if not all who read about it will agree. I have talked to my closest girlfriend and even she is puzzled by it.

Right so me and my man been with each other for around a year. I love him verymuch and I know he loves me also. We get sexual an average
of 4 or 5 times a week, we are both young- I am 25 he is 26. Since the first time we have had sex which was approx 6 months into the relationship he has been into a rather strange sexual practice which has gotten me very curious and worried also a little tired of the process and the time spent doing it each time. He has an obcession of having his manhood measured. We will often start making out then things gradually move into the bedroom, usually he is naked and I am clothed. He prefers to be naked first due to his sexual thing.
so he will lay on his back whilst I straddle his legs just below his genitals (not over). He will want me to rub his legs and move my hands over his chest and then gently over his testicles, eventually I will move my hands over his penis. He will start to get erect then after a few more seconds he is sporting a full erection. Heres where things start to get a little strange. I always have a ruler nearby for this reason and he would probably get upset if I didn't, so I will bring it out and show it to him while placing my other hand on my
hip and looking at him deep in the eyes with teasing smile. I will begin to measure and then I will commentate to him how hard he is getting
and where on the ruler his penis is reaching, he seems to really be turned on on the notion of being so close to the 7 inch mark on the ruler.
His penis is around average size of 6 and a half or 3 quarters and not quite 7 inches but close, it pleases me fine when we do have intercourse so I have never had an issue with it and never even mentioned it but he loves to be taunted at how close to the 7 inch mark he is getting.

I do it to please him while I often end up confused I still am happy that he enjoys it but it can go on too long when I want to just get straight to intercourse but have to do this for 20 or something minutes every time beforehand!!

the lines he insists I repeat and rememeber for the next time are usually things like:

"time to see how much of a man you are!" - *when producing ruler*
"come on 6 and a half inches just a little more..."
"you got 7 inches for the ladies???"
"almost got seve-ennn..."
"not quite 7 sorry baby" - *when showing to him the ruler to his face and placing my finger where the end of his penis reached and looking at him with a taunting face*

Yes while you could brush it off as just another strange fetish or obsession of sorts, I am interested in finding out the roots of why such a bizaare sexual practice would be so important to a male in this way. I have never been with any other man who would like this or even heard of any man at all who would enjoy something this weird, Why would a man want this type of almost self humiliation or perhaps domination in a way. I am looking mostly for psychological type answers if possible.

Thanks sorry it went on for a while but I had to explain it all.

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[+3] - farmerman - 10/13/2012I make a paste of the "male enhancement pills" and rub the paste on the sections of dovetails that Ive made that are a bit "Short". The male enhancement potion swells the wood...

@Annaharts2012,

Have you not taken note of the commercials on TV hawking pills to increase the length of a male manhood?

As such pills hawkers are taking in millions of dollars for worthless pills year in and year out the length is an issue with a large fraction of the male population.

The measuring of it before sex is a new idea to me however I see zero harm on such sex play so it hardly seems to be anything to be concern about and while males are far less complex then females we will come up with unusual turns on from time to time.

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@BillRM,

I make a paste of the "male enhancement pills" and rub the paste on the sections of dovetails that Ive made that are a bit "Short". The male enhancement potion swells the wood so my dovetails fit much more snugly. Can this get posted in Penthouse too?

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@Annaharts2012,

You are both perfectly normal

Just don't do anything physically damaging

Everyone is beset by fantasies and compulsions. The trick is to know which ones to act upon. Generally don't where clearly illegal or where others can see you

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I don't think this is strange at all. Don't understand why anyone would think it is, or why you'd need to question, or share it with anyone.

It's not hurting you, he enjoys it, end of subject.

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@Annaharts2012,

This is what I saw in your post: He is naked and you are clothed. He wants you to taunt him about his manhood and question it. He needs 20 minutes of that taunting about that lack of manhood to be truly sexually aroused. These all point to signs that he wants you in control while he is submissive.

If you check out femdom literature you will probably find all types of ways of taunting men about their manhood, some mild but some of it quite severe like dressing him like a woman or cuckolding him. Much of it has to do with a psychological need of the submissive person to feel dominated or humiliated. Some people find it quite emotionally fulfilling to not be in control or to be treated in that manner because they don't feel worthy or some other reason. Even US Congressman can have those fetishes. There was one recently that like to be dressed in diapers which is also a variation of having the woman in control while the submissive is not a man because he is still a child.

Whether your boyfriend is looking for more is something you will have to talk with him about. Clearly you are finding one scenario to be quite boring. Find another scenario and surprise him with it. Branch out from his scripted lines. Tie him to the bed so he can't complain and then find other ways to question his manhood. Make him wear women's panties because his penis isn't large enough to be a real man's organ. See if it turns him on. Talk about it. If what he is really looking for is to be humiliated about being a man then there are lots of ways to do it. Find some erotic stories about women controlling men. Read them together and see if you find them interesting or not. But first and foremost, don't do something you are uncomfortable with just because he wants it.

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@chai2,

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he enjoys it, end of subject.

Well put, 2, succinct, to the point

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@dalehileman,

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also a little tired of the process and the time spent doing it each time.

Sex involves 2 people in this case. If one of them is tired of it then it isn't the end of the story. It's moving toward resentment because one person is dictating the same thing always needs to happen and the other person just isn't that in to it.

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@parados,

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and the time spent doing it each time……….Sex involves 2 people

Sorry Par but are you addressing me

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@dalehileman,

Quote was from the original poster and it appears that this measuring act had to happen every time and it was getting old.

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@parados,

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Quote was from the original poster

Ok sorry Par but how come you addressed it specifically to me

I'm still somewhat baffled by the habits of the digital world

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@dalehileman,

I addressed it to you because if 2 people always do the thing that only ONE person enjoys it then it isn't the end of story.

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