@ehBeth,
Quote:Re: Frank Apisa (Post 5082976)
Quote:Frank Apisa wrote:
If they happened to be grocery store clerks where she shopped there is no crime.
that's right - there is not a similar 'power' relationship between shoppers and clerks as there can often be between students and teachers
re-read Ms. Olga's post on the subject. I think there is quite a bit to reflect on there.
Beth, you and Ms. Olga can have whatever take on this issue you want. I respect that...and I recognize, as I have mentioned that reasonable people can differ substantially on the issue.
My guess is the footballers were not harmed by this activity...and I dare guess they will brag about it in years to come. My guess is they already are!
You are vastly over-rating the "power relationship" in this instance. I respectfully suggest there is as much chance that the young men took advantage of a vulnerable woman as there is that a devious woman took advantage of vulnerable young men. NOT POSITIVE, but it is at least a possibility.
(I am reminded here of discussions about who the sexual predator was in the Monica Lewinsky/Bill Clinton situation. I am reminded here of discussions of who actually was the power holder...and who succumbed to power. It is not anywhere near as black and white as some of you seem to think it is.)
I recommend you read some of Spendius' posts on this issue rather than Ms. Olga. His make much more sense.