Could he possibly care?

Who cares?

Seriously, why are you bothering with this stuff?

Earth to lisa1471 - Your husband has a **** buddy. He may or may not care for her as a person. She may or may not care for him as a person.

But that does not matter. He is ******* someone else while he is still married to you, and apparently shows little to no chance of stopping.

So, unless your self-esteem is in the toilet, why are you obsessing over this? Why are you staying? Why are you giving a damn about people who might be giving you STDs and certainly aren't respecting you?

I'm sorry. I know how harsh I sound. But I've been nice and you haven't listened to ****.

Wake up and smell the coffee.

Because it's my marriage. If I know he don't care then he could dump her.

You don't have a marriage. Time to face that fact.

He could dump her but given there is no consequence for not dumping her he won't and even if he did, he'd just find another. Sorry.

So he gets jealous of her movements, doesn't want to lose her. That doesn't mean he loves her, rather, he's possessive and doesn't want to lose his prize the bit on the side.. Bet she trys to make him jealous too, so he'll leave you. But, if he was going to he would have. Why hasn't he? Cause you are accepting that she is in the picture and you are his wife.

Your "everyone" are trying to make you feel better. Wrong, wrong advice, it should be WFT? Get out of that marriage you deserve better.

So he's not leaving me that's great.See he loves me.You said he don't love her though Thar's important. Thanks '

Well he would have already wouldn't he have? You know about her, he knows you know about her, she knows about you.

Firstly, what the heck are you doing being happy with this situation to start with, you are in your 30's not a kid..

Secondly, why the heck do you still have her as a friend on facebook, then get pissed that she gets mad when she reads what you and your buddy, (better than hubby or bunny) get up to? And, then come here to state so.............

Ah, hope springs eternal.

What is that suppose to mean that I'm special?