My boyfriend's developed a PE problem

Sounds like your boyfriend doesn't have any PE problems, I think the problem is on your side. Maby he isn't as interested in long lasting sex with you now and he just wants to get it over n done with.

My advice to you would be to keep up. Get off faster then him just to prove a point.

That is hardly a PE problem. It sounds rather normal since the joke is 2 minutes.

30 years ago, before 'lasting forever' was as big a deal as it has become today, I recall reading that the average time frame was 3 - 5 minutes.

This probably isn't the place to ask about the psychology of PE. I don't think there are any registered psychologists here, nor anyone that specialises in the physiology/psychology of what makes a guy last as long as he does.

One way to last longer is recite baseball statistics.


No one remembers stats any more. They just look them up on line.

Actually, that's an often given advice that is more recently being proven wrong. More recent findings are that the man should concentrate on the feeling in his penis, and be familiar with the stages that it goes through leading up to orgasm. Researchers have found 4 distinct stages. In knowing what stage he is at, he is then able to slow/change/manage the rhythm when he is building too far.

Breathing also plays are large part in reaching orgasm (the breathing rate increases as you near orgasm, and slowing the breathing rate slows the build up). As a supposition on my part - the oxygenation of the blood seems to play a part (which may be another reason why breathing is important), so it should be better in fitter people.

There are also exercises that 'strengthen' the penis (pretty much the same as kegal exercises for women) that affect it's stimulation (though that may be a result of the guy becoming more aware of his own penis, as above, or a combination of both)

Other than that - The man should be allowed (and encouraged) to enjoy the interaction as much as the woman - suggesting otherwise is a double standard waste of time that says that just increases pressure on men - implying that their pleasure is meaningless, that in order to satisfy her they can't enjoy the pleasure, otherwise they won't satisfy her...ie I think it's psychologically damaging.

You say you've been having sex for about six months. Now there are problems with a faster ejaculation.

Speculating. But, at the beginning, it's lustful, daily, or more if you can and as you start to settle into the relationship sex lessons but is still obviously there.

It could be that you two have less frequent sex? If so, that would make him cum faster.

me thinks you watch too much porn. 5 minutes is rather good in real life. If you want longer tell him to pull out just before he cums and wait a bit, in time he can train himself to **** like a porn star. He also should jack off more often, as that will increase his stamina.

BTW- the root of this "problem" is probably that he has gotten into the habit of ******* you and loving it, which beats his old habit of jacking off. You might be honored.

I see, you feel it's the reverse and he's been trying so hard to train himself not to come but keeps having sex with her loads of times, (no punt intended) sort off

Wonder what the reply will be?

I think everybody have their own imagination about normal ejaculating time, in my opinion just talk to him, maybe it is real that he have another love now, better do it fast, before it will be to late ...

You don't explain it enough. He ejaculates WHEN? After insertion? After two hours of foreplay?

I'd say to be sure you get off first, then it's not going to matter how long he lasts after that.

Be sure he takes care of you, first. Teach him how to do that, if needed.

But I think it might be a PE. I'm not an expert, but your specific problem points to it. In this case, ask the expert. Perhaps sexologist or therapist. Or suffice same exercises at home, but you have to have a guide.

http://able2know.org/topic/194012-1

I had a PE problem one time. But I eventually manned up and climbed that stupid rope. I think I even ended up getting an "A" in PE that year.

(Sorry, I just couldn't resist.)

Premature Ejaculation is a girls problme as far as I'm concernd, I treat sex like treat a 1ooM dash, faster I get to the end the more likley I'm going to win gold. by gold I mean she might not harang me and I can concentrate on finding the next victim.

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more foreplay, even if he ejaculates faster hes gonna want to go some more.