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Wed 18 Apr, 2012 01:59 pm
Hello,
I need some advice. There is this guy I have a crush on, but he doesn't know I have one on him. So whenever I am around him he is always asking me questions about this other guy that we are both friends with. He’s like, “do you like him?”, “do you think he’s hot?”, “do you just wanna sit there and look at his body?”, “do you wanna hug him?” and stuff like that. It’s not like he is just asking me privately he is asking me in front of the guy he’s asking me about AND a bunch of our other friends. It’s like he’s flirting with me for the other guy. He even texts me flirty messages and pretends it’s the other guy. Once he even pinched the guys butt and tried to say it was me. My question is: Is that his way of saying he likes me, or is he trying to make me like the other guy? Thanks for any and all help!! And btw, I am a teenaged girl. haha
@youmakemefeellike,
umm...now here's a thought...perhaps he's gay?
@Ragman,
That is a good idea, but I know he's not. He said he's not. What does anyone else think?
@youmakemefeellike,
Have you asked him? Maybe the direct approach might be the best way.
@Ragman,
No, I haven't asked yet. I just wanna see what ppl think first.
@youmakemefeellike,
Mind games ....
That would be embarrasing in any event.. Why don't you ask the guy he's referring to, what he thinks of it all... I'm betting that they have talked..
I'd say yes, he likes you, but what a way to show it! Very immature.
He's "fronting off" your mutual friend. Instead of letting you know he cares about you, he puts his friend in front of himself so he does not have to say or do something directly to you.