ossobuco wrote: Cav's rather gentle comment about taking it slow is a wise one, and not at all a put down. Slow enriches, mostly, and slow is also very smart.
I agree that slowness is important. You can't get the detail with speed. The only thing that is enjoyable with speed are roller costers. You don't grasp all the detail when you speed through an art museum. That is the thing you have to take your time with. Get to know the beauty of some of the works of art. Speeding past it you miss the greatness and sometimes you miss the horrible. Getting to know someone in a relationship takes careful timing, a lot of listening, a handful of understanding, sprinkle of smiling, a cup of fun, and a gallon of butterflies that should be fluttering in your stomach when you see them the first few weeks.
Ya'll made me remanence of the good times of old. I don't know if that was a good thing or not, I am smiling though, so maybe it was good.
SqUeAkz and ossobuco thanks.