@michelleyy,
...well I donĀ“t know, it can be argued either away...those who are more aware or prepared on what the future might or will bring, and some of it is not good no matter how well you prepare yourself, live the present to the full without being a fool...that is, they are able to appreciate small stuff and what they have in everyday life because they somehow intuit is not little...most important things tend to be invisibly simple...sometimes we take a lifetime to realise that...