I'm a girl- how do I "cum"?

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My husband is in the military so we're very frequently not physically together (like right now he's overseas). Recently- we were "playing" over Webcam and it was REALLY exciting and then I "finished" a lot of liquid came out. So much that I could feel it dripping down and left a little area on my sheets wet. My husband was REALLY into it- and keeps asking me to do it again. But I have NO idea how it happened the first time and therefore can't make it happen again. How did this happen the one time and how do I make it happen more often??

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@thatonegirl90,

Oh Lord!

Sorry I can’t help you out there, perhaps someone else can, I didn’t even know that was possible.

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@jcboy,

I didn't either! Totally took me by surprise.. maybe something is/was wrong? Because I've never heard of it either.

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@thatonegirl90,

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_ejaculation

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@thatonegirl90,

thatonegirl90 wrote:

My husband is in the military so we're very frequently not physically together (like right now he's overseas). Recently- we were "playing" over Webcam and it was REALLY exciting and then I "finished" a lot of liquid came out. So much that I could feel it dripping down and left a little area on my sheets wet. My husband was REALLY into it- and keeps asking me to do it again. But I have NO idea how it happened the first time and therefore can't make it happen again. How did this happen the one time and how do I make it happen more often??

Rub the pubic mound with fingers or penis

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@hingehead,

Thank you! Good information. At least I know now there isn't something wrong with me.

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@thatonegirl90,

The G spot they mentioned in the article is the pubic mound, the round place above the vagina, and both woman and man have one. Even in her seventies, I can still stimulate my wife, not by penetration, by rubbing her mound, hard, with my mound.

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@thatonegirl90,

Excitement is an amazing thing, caught un-aware of your "non-inhibitions" is what happened.

Another word for it is squirting but I find that kinda gross Smile

If you want to experience that again, have no inhibitions, be in tune with your body as you were that day, captured in that excitement and yes, discover your G-Spot, perhaps whilst he's away you can google more and experiement personally, I think a woman's body is beautiful and if respected, then anything is possible between two people...

I am a woman by the way.

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@thatonegirl90,

I was stunned to see that the UK banned porn showing female ejaculation because it's 'impossible'.

I beg to differ. It's not common, in my experience, but it is real.

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@FOUND SOUL,

FOUND SOUL wrote:

Excitement is an amazing thing, caught un-aware of your "non-inhibitions" is what happened.

Another word for it is squirting but I find that kinda gross

If you want to experience that again, have no inhibitions, be in tune with your body as you were that day, captured in that excitement and yes, discover your G-Spot, perhaps whilst he's away you can google more and experiement personally, I think a woman's body is beautiful and if respected, then anything is possible between two people...

I am a woman by the way.

Here in the US, you can buy all kinds of battery operated vibrators, dildos that stimulate the G- spot

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@Rickoshay75,

Rickoshay isn't that Irish?

I'm sure you can buy anything all over the World, well I know you can....

Seems people get real excited over the prospect of this subject Smile

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@FOUND SOUL,

squirting definitely would not be my favorite word to use either.. but it definitely made it easier to find information online about it. I think you're exactly right about having no inhibitions and capturing the excitement- because that's exactly what happened the first time. It's just hard to re capture that again. But at least I know the direction to be heading in now! It's definitely a good idea to Google more and figure this out before he gets back. I'll have to experiment a little over the next few months.

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@hingehead,

Really? Banned? That's kind of crazy. It clearly isn't "impossible". From googling the term I obviously came across a lot of videos that seem a little crazy. But I'm not sure how they could have faked them. Who knows. Porn plays everything up to the extreme, but I do know that to some degree at least- female ejaculation is real. Good to put a name to it.

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@Rickoshay75,

That's true! My town is in the suburbs and apparently we don't have any stores like that within like 50 miles (I just finished searching) but it might be worth the drive. Or of course checking out online stores. I just had no idea that the G-spot is where this originated from, I didn't know I was stimulating anything different than I normally do. I guess I need to get to know my body more...

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@thatonegirl90,

I don't think female ejaculation and the g-spot are directly related. Certainly the former doesn't require stimulation of the latter.

Anyway - as you imply, it's your body, for you to know.

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@thatonegirl90,

Not a fan of porn. Here in Oz it came up in a panel show last night and the consensus was because it plays up extremes and young minds are looking for 'what's normal' there must be some very uncomfortable early sexual experiences.

The prevalence of anal for example. No doubt young men watching porn think women like it - what they probably don't realise is that in LA a woman will get $750 for 'vag' porn, but $1500 for anal. Economics, not pleasure. I can't imagine what it must be like growing up now. It was confusing enough with growing up with too little information - what's it like with too much misinformation?

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@hingehead,

It's true! Men my age really do expect what they see in porn. I read an interview once from a male porn star telling people to not try to mirror what they do professionally because it isn't actually enjoyable- it's just all about camera angles, and I really think that's accurate. But these men now expect women to do what the porn stars do, and as you said, ENJOY it. It just makes everything much more complicated. I wish more young men realized what you stated- that these women are getting paid MUCH more money to do these things that are sometimes painful and pretend to get off from it. It makes sex a lot less enjoyable, a lot scarier, and it almost turns it into a chore. Young men truly believe that women get off by pleasuring them. And they don't need anything in return- because that's what is portrayed in the media.

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@thatonegirl90,

thatonegirl90 wrote:

That's true! My town is in the suburbs and apparently we don't have any stores like that within like 50 miles (I just finished searching) but it might be worth the drive. Or of course checking out online stores. I just had no idea that the G-spot is where this originated from, I didn't know I was stimulating anything different than I normally do. I guess I need to get to know my body more...

Try this

http://www.adultdvdempire.com/

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@Rickoshay75,

Thanks! I'm checking it out now Smile

Such a variety haha.

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