5 against 1. I'll take them thar odds. I figured there would be a lot more jumping in to take the other side.
But just to clarify for the original poster, mutual masturbation, in my opinion, is perfectly fine between married couples. It is the unmarried issue which makes it sinful, in my opinion of course.
At the end of the day, each person must decide what is right or wrong based on whatever way they wish to live their life. Hopefully he will consider what is right or wrong for him and follow his conscience. That is all any of us can do.