@katmcgill89,
Of whatever help or interest this may be:
over the years, decades n centuries,
I remember receiving letters in the mail
from 2 different women, Jandy and Julie,
indicating their desires for social relations.
One of them was a poignant complaint from Julie
for my failure to be faster to respond to her social overtures.
( I had been lazy; procrastinated. )
We went out to dinner a few times.
"He who hesitates is lost" or something like that.
David