@jespah,
jespah wrote:
I swear, nastiness to the overweight is one of the last bastions of allegedly acceptable prejudice, that it's somehow fun and hip and amusing to be mean to people.
I have never seen this outside of elementary or high school. Seriously. And even then, it wasn't that usual.
I think the fact that there are more obese people today has been changing our mindset about it... if there was one large person in your class, they would get picked on, but if 30% of your class is large, it becomes the norm.
The thing is, a lot of kids are very sedentary today. I see so many young people (especially women) who are way larger than me and I've got to be 30 - 40 yrs older than they are. It's a crying shame. If you asked them what they do for fun, it would be different that what we did. We played pickup baseball, rode bikes, skipped rope, played Tag, roller and ice-skated, played backyard hockey, etc etc etc. We also walked to school, to our friends' houses and everywhere we wanted to go. Plus, my family never bought processed food (cheese slices, KD, cheez whiz - which we really wanted), never mind chips and pop. They were way more expensive than the real deal. There also weren't very many McDonald's in those days, and we couldn't afford it anyway, wherever they were. We weren't allowed to watch tv until after dinner, after our chores and homework were done. Now, many kids have tvs in their own bedrooms. Not mention all the games they play - xbox, etc.
A lot of it is lifestyle and kids don't get a choice. At least not in my day. Today, I really don't know what's going on. I don't know many people with kids that age so I don't know what they're doing or what they did at that age.
Are kids forced to run around the field 3x before playing field hockey or football in PE like we had to? How many sign up for team sports, track and field, swimming, gymnastics, etc? School team sports were free when I was a kid, with buses taking you to other schools (meaning parents didn't have to drive you), and the teachers didn't get paid for coaching. The uniforms were free, too. Maybe that's changed today? Ice hockey was huge where I grew up and it's grown to be more popular than ever, with rinks popping up everywhere and time slots filled. That's an expensive sport, but there's still waiting lists.
I rarely see kids here playing outside or riding their bikes. I don't know where or if they're getting any exercise, but it's not like it was when I was a kid when the neighbourhoods and neighbourhood parks would be rife with children. There are 3 parks in my vicinity and I walk by them daily with the dog. I have seen 4 boys once in one park playing ice hockey. Other than that, it's toddlers on swings and whatnot with their parents in good weather.