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Being Paid For An Adult Movie--THOUGHTS?!?!?

 
 
vikorr
 
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Reply Wed 21 Dec, 2011 09:29 pm
@FOUND SOUL,
I've always thought that there are only a limited number of women who are tempermentally suited to getting paid for sex...no where near the number that are actually employed in the industry.

Why by the way, do people feel the need to look down on them?
FOUND SOUL
 
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Reply Thu 22 Dec, 2011 02:00 am
@vikorr,
I think that all sorts of things come into play.

I think that they respect themselves but somewhere along the line, got involved maybe, with the wrong crowd. Perhaps they started of as a stripper, perhaps they got involved in drugs and needed the money, perhaps they had a little one and couldn't support the child but the respect, for themselves bit by bit deminishes to a degree.

It's interesting, men can sleep with 100 women.. Women sleep with more than one in a short time phrame and she's looked down upon.

I think "people" should get to know the woman involved in a sex Industry and ask her why... Then help her if they can.

If it's only about money, then fine, they are fine.

markhuy
 
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Reply Fri 23 Dec, 2011 03:38 am
@FOUND SOUL,
"Mind your own business"

It's not that I support or tolerate this kind of business, but we all have different reasons why we do such things.
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Fri 23 Dec, 2011 03:41 am
@FOUND SOUL,
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I think "people" should get to know the woman involved in a sex Industry and ask her why... Then help her if they can.


I note that it appears that you dont think that you first should find out if she wants your help.......women are to be treated as children, right?
OmSigDAVID
 
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Reply Fri 23 Dec, 2011 04:18 am

Of those people who need revenues from personal labor,
everyone needs to figure out how best to make a living.

I don't know what porn movie stars make,
tho I 've heard that the porn industry is very prosperous.

Maybe it coud be possible that porn movie stars get very rich
when thay r successful in the business (not $50).





David
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FOUND SOUL
 
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Reply Fri 23 Dec, 2011 04:41 am
@markhuy,
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Why by the way, do people feel the need to look down on them?


This is the question asked to me from the OP. You read my answer.

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Mind your own business"

It's not that I support or tolerate this kind of business, but we all have different reasons why we do such things.


Re-read my answer , that is exactly what I stated, there are reasons...Mind your own business suggests that one of those reasons suits you, or your other half.

You said in another thread "I hope not" .. Maybe that is a fact, and hope is out the door.

I'm sorry if you, personally or a woman in your life , is one of those whom needs people to be there for them.

If that wasn't the case you would not have told me to mind my own business.

Take care.


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FOUND SOUL
 
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Reply Fri 23 Dec, 2011 04:46 am
@hawkeye10,
Don't like my comments on your thread hawkeye?

Didn't imagine you would have... Now you sound like Bill, sorry Bill, but where did I write that? Women are not "women" at 15,17,18 they are growing and un-fortunately alot get used by men like you...

Given you are so into porn, of under-age and teenagers that you can not distinguish the age, and like "women" to dress up as "teenagers" to ensure you are safe from the Police, it's you that sees "children" teenagers, in their school uniforms... I see "children" being exploited and conned by men like you.

You know I don't like you stop following me:)

I am here to stay, get used to it.

hawkeye10
 
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Reply Fri 23 Dec, 2011 12:12 pm
@FOUND SOUL,
FOUND SOUL wrote:

Don't like my comments on your thread hawkeye?

Didn't imagine you would have... Now you sound like Bill, sorry Bill, but where did I write that? Women are not "women" at 15,17,18 they are growing and un-fortunately alot get used by men like you...

Given you are so into porn, of under-age and teenagers that you can not distinguish the age, and like "women" to dress up as "teenagers" to ensure you are safe from the Police, it's you that sees "children" teenagers, in their school uniforms... I see "children" being exploited and conned by men like you.

You know I don't like you stop following me:)

I am here to stay, get used to it.




Evasion

Hawkeye said

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I note that it appears that you dont think that you first should find out if she wants your help.......women are to be treated as children, right?


I know you have no trouble addressing my imaginary faults, but would you mind addressing my point? Why the assumption that a woman who is doing porn would either need or want your "help"?
FOUND SOUL
 
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Reply Fri 23 Dec, 2011 02:37 pm
@hawkeye10,
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I know you have no trouble addressing my imaginary faults, but would you mind addressing my point? Why the assumption that a woman who is doing porn would either need or want your "help"?


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I think "people" should get to know the woman involved in a sex Industry and ask her why... Then help her if they can.

If it's only about money, then fine, they are fine.


I can't see a question Hawkeye to address can you?
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Fri 23 Dec, 2011 02:50 pm
@FOUND SOUL,
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I can't see a question Hawkeye to address can you?


I ask a question and your response is that you cant see a question?? Drunk

Lets try rephrasing.....Why do you not feel that you owe these women the dignity and control over their lives to before doing anything ask if they want your help, and then unless they say they do to walk away and leave them the **** alone and run your own life only??
FOUND SOUL
 
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Reply Fri 23 Dec, 2011 03:03 pm
@hawkeye10,
1) You claimed that I was assuming that a woman who is doing porn would "want my help" I stated, "people" should take the time out basically and get to know the women, who knows, they may need help and don't really want to be there, or if not, and they are there for the money, fine... Then they don't.

What part of that don't you understand? I never said "me"..... So there was no question to answer. PS I don't drink at 7am... or during the day actually, and not every night.

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Lets try rephrasing.....Why do you not feel that you owe these women the dignity and control over their lives to before doing anything ask if they want your help, and then unless they say they do to walk away and leave them the **** alone and run your own life only??


Is that paragraph making any sense to anyone else?

They owe it to themselves to be who ever they want to be, it's there life.. I don't look down on them if I did, I wouldn't say hey, be good if people took the time out to get to know them, who knows, maybe they really don't want to be there.

You have a problem with that, that's your problem... I didn't say to go up to them and say "hey lady, do you need help? " And again, nor did I say "my help" get over yourself hawkeye you just love debating, trying to be right, trying to win and an attention seeker... "Unless they say do to walk away" ? Like I said, if they are happy then why should anyone probe further, off course they will walk away and get on with their own life.

You so are not making any sense, common sense in any event.

Go play with your thread hun.. It turns you on, as people continue to bring up child sex.

hawkeye10
 
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Reply Fri 23 Dec, 2011 04:07 pm
@FOUND SOUL,
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I didn't say to go up to them and say "hey lady, do you need help?


Right, that is what I said you should do if you have any jones to help them, and if the response is not a yes then you owe it to them to STFU and walk away. You are still asserting that you get to decide when they need your "help", which is a violation of their right to self determination.


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Like I said, if they are happy then why should anyone probe further, off course they will walk away and get on with their own life.
It is not your job to make other people happy, nor can you, each person can only make themselves happy. You show a profound lack of understanding or else disregard for the proper boundaries between yourself and others.
FOUND SOUL
 
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Reply Fri 23 Dec, 2011 05:17 pm
@hawkeye10,
Hawkeye you are barking up the wrong tree. It was "me" who suggested that people should take the time out and get to know the women, see if they open up and really don't want to be there...

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Right, that is what I said you should do if you have any jones to help them, and if the response is not a yes then you owe it to them to STFU and walk away.


If you want to take the claim for that go for it.

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You are still asserting that you get to decide when they need your "help", which is a violation of their right to self determination


I'm a very assertive woman..Besides that, If "I" as you keep referring back to me, when I clearly stated "people" should take the time, however, if I took the time to be-friend a woman and established that she loved what she was doing, the conversation may then become facsinating and I'm sure we'd exchange emails. Simularily, if I be-friended a woman and established that she was only there as she was a drug addict or to survive, as she had a child and couldn't afford to raise him/her I would do what I could in my power to help her get out of it as well as care for herself and her child... So, if that's a violation of their rights you're fooling yourself... Don't Judge Hawkeye it always bites you in the azz.

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It is not your job to make other people happy, nor can you, each person can only make themselves happy. You show a profound lack of understanding or else disregard for the proper boundaries between yourself and others.


Oh yes it is... I've made it my life and yes I do... How can a person make themselves happy, alone, unless they have people standing by them, supporting them, believing in them and cheering them on? Again you're actingl like a fool.

The bottom line, if they don't want help they won't ask for it, or it won't be noticable that they do.

You would be suprised, just how many "women" I have helped, from teenagers to now women and women... You don't know me, try not to get a headache annalysing me.

I'm sure you like turning things around, debating but I'm not your puppy dog hun... I don't have to have the last word... Although I just did.

hawkeye10
 
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Reply Fri 23 Dec, 2011 07:36 pm
@FOUND SOUL,
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if I be-friended a woman and established that she was only there as she was a drug addict or to survive, as she had a child and couldn't afford to raise him/her I would do what I could in my power to help her get out of it as well as care for herself and her child


And nowhere in this scenario have you ever asked if she wanted help. You have been clear that what the sex worker wants is not part of the equation, you are going to walk into their life, pass judgement, and do your level best to move them towards the life that you want them to lead. It is classic do-gooderitus, and it is a violation of other peoples sovereignty over their lives.
FOUND SOUL
 
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Reply Sat 24 Dec, 2011 02:59 am
@hawkeye10,
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And nowhere in this scenario have you ever asked if she wanted help. You have been clear that what the sex worker wants is not part of the equation, you are going to walk into their life, pass judgement, and do your level best to move them towards the life that you want them to lead. It is classic do-gooderitus, and it is a violation of other peoples sovereignty over their lives.


This is my last post here to you Hawkeye, you like to win, I'm not wasting my time going to and frow on someone else's thread which you are hijacking.

Let's get this straight, I made a "comment" people should take the time out to see if any of those girls really need someone, don't really want to be there, based on the OP's comment of why do people judge them...

That's it..Full stop.. You are the one again, twisting and turning it onto me as if I am a savour out there to find out... I'm not God, I'm not a savor but I will be there if someone "asks"... What's your problem, you never will be? Because you are a taker, simply put.. Again you don't know me but this was never about me it was about making a comment about a suggestion of my thoughts ... You are still a fool...

You think you can turn this around and make it my words, you already did a claim for fame in this thread ( I SAID THAT) no you didn't I did:) That's the problem isn't it , now you are backtracking sure you aren't Bill? You might be...

Seeya ... Sunshine... Have a Merry Christmas, be good, and don't hurt anyone.
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