How do I trust my wife working as a stripper

my wife and I met in a bar when she was dancing, a strip joint, I took her home when she aproached me and asked if I wanted a date. She said she never did this before but would go home with me I'm the first, I didnt believe her at first but as it went on this relationship became more than just a fantasy it became truth, now that were married she stopped dancing for a while but now she wants to buy a house and on my income alone it would be difficult, I tried to tell her no and I don't want her to do this any more and worked side jobs till my back hurt and feet hurt and i was so tired I almost fell off the roof trying to get a job done to get paid faster so the money would be in the bank. see I must tell you I suffer from PTSD from the military and have nerve damage from a wound I suffered from the war, so I dont know what to do. She is back stripping now and I hate it I take her to work and pick her up everynight but still there is the regulars that call her phone text her everyday ,she tells me its just the job that it doesnt mean anything shes just doing it to make money there is nothing going on