he reckons that they wouldn't be able to handle it
He probably knows best about this.
He may be protecting you from them.
How often do they come to America? My guess is never. This is BULL. ****. Since when do we at A2K lie to people? We used to pride ourselves on truth telling around here.
The truth is that these parents are most likely going to be even more pissed than they already are at this kid because now he has knocked up a girl outside of marriage, and he does not want to deal with that, quite probably because his chances of being included on the inheritance will go down yet again,