Tips?

I guess, to put it shortly, I'm not a very [sexually] aggressive person, but I really want to try it out and put a new, fun spin on things. Not really sure how I can do that though....

Whipped cream seems awfully clichéd, chocolate would have to be too hot. Caramel seems overly sticky.

Egad I just had visions of marshmallow fluff.

Anyway, welcome to A2K, aspiring mistress of, erm, ...?

Sounds like you are rather nervous about exploring Fem Dom sexuality.
I wouldn't be surprised if he too, is uncomfortable about describing his fantasies and desires to you. I suggest that you do some reading on the topic. Then show some of what you have read to him. Observe monitor his reactions. It may tell you more than he can initially bring himself to articulate.
You could decide it (and possibly him) iss not for you. On the other hand it may lead to some mutually pleasing adventures.
Here's a good place for you to start. (make sure to read the reviews on this book as well as looking 'inside' at the table of contents and first pages)

http://www.amazon.com/Mistress-Manual-Girls-Female-Dominance/dp/1890159190

I use to be the same way then I discovered peanut butter. Takes forever to lick off. This is not a joke either.

Yes! And you have to be careful of the nuts, right?!

groan.

"...be careful of the nuts, right?..."

There are at least three ways to understand this! :-)

<deep bow>

And, of course, the point spread ,too.

Only Morgan would come up with peanut butter. He's a loon!

he's a growing boy. he needs his protein. And he wants to stick by your side, of course.

The nutty peanut butter is an added bonus

I got sick as a dog on using whipped cream on his various body parts.....so I would not recommend this either.

If he wants a dominatrix, force him to do the dishes and other household chores before taking the lead in the bedroom. Think practical

how long did you leave him tied up first, jane?

cream spoils after a few hours, you know...

Haha, I am not into dominatrix things....this was just a trial and error session involving food items. Whipped cream is less messy than chocolate, but definitely more nauseating...

Of course, this was before they started importing Nutella

Re housework

Mistress Lorelei agrees with you!
(see book link above)

Hi there! So nice that you're open to exploring! I enjoy taking a dominant role with men very much. I find it extremely stimulating and satisfying when both partners are open to it.

I would start with a little list of all things sexual that the two of you could explore together and have him rate each on. Something like this:
0=Not Interested, 1=Tolerable if you want to, 2=Interested in trying, 3=Love it, can’t get enough!

Here's a list to get you started. And from each you cn build an entire evening of fun!

Anal sex (receiving)
Anal Sex (giving)
Anal plugs
Bathroom use control
Blindfolds
Being bitten
Bondage Bondage (public, under clothing)
Cells/Closets (locked inside of)
Chores (domestic service)
Cock rings/straps
Collars
Cuffs
Cuffs
Dildos
Enforced chastity
Exercise (forced)
Eye contact restrictions
Face slapping
Following orders
Foot worship
Forced dressing
Forced masturbation
Forced nudity (private)
Forced nudity (around others)
Forced servitude
Genital sex
Golden showers
Hairbrush spankings
Hair pulling
Hand jobs (receiving)
Having food chosen for you
Having clothing chosen for you
Head (receive)
High heel worship
Humiliation (private)
Humiliation (public)
Immobilization
Interrogations
Kneeling
Leather clothing
Leather restraints
Lectures for misbehavior
Manacles & Irons
Massage (giving)
Massage (receiving)
Modeling for erotic photos
Name change (Slave name)
Nipple clamps
Over-the-knee spanking
Orgasm denial
Orgasm control
Outdoor sex
Pony slave
Public exposure
Punishment
Female genital worship
Riding crops
Restrictive rules on behavior
Rimming (receive)
Rimming (giving)
Rubber/latex clothing
Rope body harness
Saran wrapping
Sensory deprivation
Serving
Serving as ashtray
Serving as furniture
Serving as a maid
Sexual deprivation (short term)
Sexual deprivation (long term)
Slutty clothing (private)
Slutty clothing (public)
Spandex clothing
Spanking
Spreader bars
Standing in corner
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on)
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by)
Strap-on-dildos (wearing)
Suspension
Teasing
Tickling
Verbal humiliation
Vibrator on genitals
Voyeurism
Video (watching others)
Video (recordings of you)
Waxing (hair removal)
Whipping
Wooden paddles

Hope that helps a little! -Cate

We have a lot in common, too bad you're female