I've been told that I've got a great personality but is that enough?
For many mature people, personality is king (or queen) depending on which way you swing.
How important are looks on a scale from 1-10?
This is an impossible question to answer as each individual has his or her inherent and often mysterious formula (even unknown to themselves) for what and whom appeals to them sexually as well as emotionally.
There are a lot of factors for each individual that is a balancing act of attraction: sense of humor or seriousness; level of fitness; individuality and style; etc....
I haven't seen your (first?) thread in a while. What have you been doing to add more social experiences to your life at college? Have you found any interesting school clubs? Activities?Perhaps even seen a school counselor to talk about your esteem issues?