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Thu 10 Aug, 2017 08:43 am
So my friend just invited me to go to the movie but i dont have my license yet (its been years) so i feel embarrassed about it. So what should i do? Any advice would be much appreciated
Do you mean a driver's license? Or do you need a cinema license in your country?
Basically i feel like a loser/lame that i dont have my Driving license yet. I can easily take an uber but like i said i feel embarrassed. I need advice on how to overcome this feeling , i 22 btw
@alien123gt,
alien123gt wrote:I need advice on how to overcome this feeling
Get help (such as therapy) for your self-esteem issues.
@centrox,
is it that bad tho? (myself esteem). If i feel this way
@alien123gt,
alien123gt wrote:is it that bad tho? (myself esteem). If i feel this way
It's bad if you think it is. You asked how to stop that feeling.
@centrox,
thanks friend. Anyway i'm curious , lets say u were in my shoes rn what would u do. This person has been trying to go out w me but like i said i have this 'issue'. So if u were me would u feel the same way like i do?
@alien123gt,
alien123gt wrote:So if u were me would u feel the same way like i do?
I would get the bus and not worry about it. Are you sure the license thing is not an excuse?
@centrox,
its honestly not , i really want to go out with this girl. But i keep telling her that im sick or something as an excuse
@alien123gt,
alien123gt wrote:i keep telling her that im sick or something as an excuse
There. You need help for this. You won't get it here, I think.
@centrox,
After reading these replies , i realized that i'm the only one who feels this way and that my self-esteem is really an issue. SOThank u so much!
@centrox,
i dont want her to know that i dont have my license
, i just feel like its so lame for a 22 year old guy to not have his driver's license
@alien123gt,
alien123gt wrote:i just feel like its so lame for a 22 year old guy to not have his driver's license
Why? It's not a big deal. You could pretend you are an intellectual who hates cars.
@centrox,
Some girls told me that its a turn off :/
@alien123gt,
alien123gt wrote:Some girls told me that its a turn off :/
They are stupid! Concentrate on the others.
@alien123gt,
I knew several people (both male and female) who didn't get their driver's license until their mid twenties. They didn't need one. Of course when they felt that they needed or wanted a driver's license, they went and got one. You obviously feel that you need a driver's license. So rather than worrying about how you (or others) may feel about it, why not just go get a license?
@TomTomBinks,
yeah im going to but lately ive been very busy and i cant get my license before the 'day' :/. And thanks again now i feel less insecure about not having my license